Slow Season: My 4 Cozy Rituals for Calm & Comfort
As I get older, I’ve realized how much joy I find in life’s simple comforts, a good book, a warm drink, soft blankets, and my pups by my side. These aren’t just random habits; they’ve become my rituals, small, intentional moments that help me slow down and feel grounded.
Here are my four favorite cozy rituals that I live by, with a few of my go-to tools and products that make them extra special.
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1. Mindful Mug
I’ve always been an early riser, part by nature, part because of my inability to sleep in, and for the last decade, I’ve started my mornings with what I call my Mindful Mug routine.
I fill a big mug with my favorite decaf coffee + collagen + oat milk combo, then take my time enjoying it in the quiet. I focus on the smell, taste, and feel of each sip, letting it ease me into the day before I start thinking about my to-do list.
My favorites for this ritual:
2. Sensory Grounding
Living with anxiety means I’ve had to learn skills to anchor myself in the present, especially when I’m overwhelmed, restless, or disconnected. My go-to method is the 5-4-3-2-1 technique:
5 things you can see
4 things you can feel (the softness of a blanket, the warmth of a fire)
3 things you can hear (rain outside, a clock ticking)
2 things you can smell
1 thing you can taste
This simple practice pulls me back into the now. It might take a couple of tries on busy days, but it’s worth it.
Helpful tools for grounding:
Soft, textured blankets - I have this one and the one below
3. Blanket Burrito
Mindfulness, but make it cozy.
Before I watch my favorite shows, I like to wrap myself up, a full-on blanket burrito, with a heated eye mask (great for dry eyes) and either my favorite fleece blanket or a weighted one. I just focus on my breath and let myself completely relax.
My favorite blankets & eye masks:
Microwavable eye mask - easier to manage and you can remove the cover for cleaning
Cozy fleece throw - I have mailed this one to friends who love cozy!
4. Wind Down Hour
We all hear about “sleep hygiene,” but between busy schedules and screen time, it’s hard to create a real wind-down routine. When I do, my sleep (and mood) noticeably improves.
I try to give myself one screen-free hour before bed: dim the lights, play soft music, and do something relaxing. It might be:
Reading a physical book or listening to an audiobook
Taking a warm bath with essential oils or bath bombs
Gentle stretching or restorative yoga
Practice a guided meditation or mindfulness exercise to let go of lingering thoughts
My wind-down essentials:
Bath bombs - great gift idea!
✨ Your turn: What’s your favorite cozy ritual? Share it in the comments — I might feature it in a future post!
