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Stories, reflections, and soft rebellions from life in motion - a mix of midlife musings, dog-mom tales, creative chaos, and gentle reminders to slow down. Grab a mug, settle in, and wander through whatever speaks to you today.

No Bones About It: Mabel - The Dog I Didn’t Know I Needed
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No Bones About It: Mabel - The Dog I Didn’t Know I Needed

Mabel is the dog I didn’t know I needed — quirky, protective, and full of chaotic charm. She came into my life skittish and scared, but over time revealed her mischievous heart: stealing socks, shredding tissues, and twirling with joy. She’s the muse behind my Chaos Gremlins collection and a daily reminder that love doesn’t have to be tidy to be true. Mabel mirrors the part of me that feels deeply and moves through life a little wildly, teaching me that laughter, patience, and imperfection are often where the love lives.

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No Bones About it: Puppy Starter Pack - Bringing Home Otis & Our First Nights
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No Bones About it: Puppy Starter Pack - Bringing Home Otis & Our First Nights

When I first met Otis at the facility in central California, he curled up in my arms and didn’t move. In that quiet moment, I knew he was mine. A few weeks later, when I brought him home, I thought I had everything ready—crate, puppy pads, the works. But that first night taught me the truth about puppy parenting: no matter how many books you read, your dog will teach you what really matters. Here’s what I learned from our first week together, plus the starter pack of essentials I swear by for new puppy parents.

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